Category Archives: family disfunction

HARD LESSON TO LEARN

Posted on May 10, 2022 by oneta hayes

Try not to let the number of years distract you from my message. I don’t even remember when I wrote it first. The second section, below my picture, is my message to you today. ***************************** I’ve been into mother’s stuff … Continue reading →

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GRANDMOTHERING

Posted on October 14, 2021 by oneta hayes

It is time to put my mind to the Thanksgiving/Christmas family times.  Thanksgiving is November 25 and Christmas is December 25.  At least that is on the calendar for 2021.  Dr. Fauci may be cancelling but most of us have … Continue reading →

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PROBLEM BEGAN WITH TV TRAYS

Posted on July 20, 2021 by oneta hayes

I have often blamed television for the break down of the family. That wasn’t the problem. I remember television as family unity – at first. Small houses, television in the den could be seen from the kitchen. Put on “I … Continue reading →

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